Happy 3rd Birthday Son

February 21, 2012 at 7:37 am 1 comment

Happy Birthday Matthew. I can’t believe that it is almost 3 years to the minute since we said goodbye. We barely even got to say Hello. 3 years and it feels like just yesterday. 3 years and it feels like an eternity sometimes as well. Every year, every day is a stark reminder of what we will never get with you. This is your 3rd Birthday. What will your 13th or your 30th be like?

This is not natural son. Mommy and I are not supposed to be celebrating your birthday without you. 3 is that age where kids really start to understand the magic of a Birthday Party. I hope you can see it. We’ve got balloons, decorations, even a Dairy Queen Ice Cream Cake picked out just for you. You would love it so much. It’s a really special day this year. Your baby brother Daniel will get to destroy a piece of your Birthday cake.

We’re working on change son. Just this past week we met some of the great people that have helped us to get your story told. Each one of them is a hero of mine in their own right. Yes, because they are fighting to help us make sure this doesn’t happen to other families, but more so because they remember you by name and you are important to them as well. It is that remembrance that keeps you alive.

3 years and still nothing major has changed though son. Sure they’re talking about implementing change, but until that happens, other babies and their mommies are in danger just like you.

Not a day goes by that I don’t ache to hold you once more. That day will come again. But we still have lots of work to do here, okay. I will never stop loving you. I will never stop missing you.

All my love,

 

Daddy

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Happy Third Birthday Angel Boy. Our voices will not be silenced

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  • 1. Christine Puricelli  |  February 21, 2012 at 9:35 am

    Happy 3rd Birthday, Matthew!

    Your parents have been very busy with some very important work in your memory. I know for sure it has already saved some babies from dying like you did. I have even heard commercials from lawyers on TV here in Phoenix warning of the dangers of taking anti-depressants while pregnant. You are still a little hero in my eyes. Your family will never forget you. Someday they will see you again where there will be no more tears for you–only hugs and kisses & joy!

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